Nigerian movie star, Jim Iyke has revealed that he had two marriages that failed because of him.
He said on a program called ‘’ With Chude’’ that he blames himself for his two failed marriages.
“I have had a failed marriage, but nobody knows that. I have three kids. I caused my marriage to fail. I am not the type that would blame anybody for my mistakes. There is a saying, ‘To boss up, own up.’’ He said.
And how he lost the mother who was his bedrock and the experiences that he went through.
During this time, when he was getting married and he was also pregnant and he doesn’t know to grieve, the actor put his grief into becoming a ‘proper stay-at-home dad’, completely disregarding his wife.
In Jim’s words, “I didn’t grieve all through the process of her death and burial…but by the time I started to grieve, my wife became pregnant with my first son, and I wasn’t as loving as I should be….I became an obsessive dad after my son arrived…I took all my love and care for our son and abandoned her instead. I took all my love and attention to my son and left her behind, I was an excellent father but a woeful husband.
According to him, he took it upon himself to hurry his healing process after his wife told him that she could no longer feel his existence and left him. They did, however, part as friends.
Story by Obaapa Janee/ahotoronline
Source: pules.ng
