Ghanaian renowned marriage counsellor Charlotte Oduro has instructed women to give their husbands good food and good sex when they return from their extramarital affair.
According to her, women shouldn’t be too harsh on their men with needless arguments when they are from their extramarital engagement because that can push them away. And can even end the marriage anytime they detect such acts.
Speaking on Accra-based Okay Fm with Abieku Santana, she said, people should endeavor to be considerate to their fellow humans and d not judge them quickly.
“When your husband returns home from cheating, let him settle, give him good sex and food. It’s not right for anyone to cheat. Yes, it is wrong but we have all done wrong so we should be human. Let’s think thoroughly before we judge. It’s not right to do it but let’s give people a listening ear. After paying attention and listening, you can detect whether their actions were as a result of a mistake, or it was deliberate,” she said.
“There are some instances where it wasn’t intentional. But if you knew he was a womanizer and you went ahead to marry him, and then be ready to go through everything that comes with it.”
She, however, advised women against settling down with men who have shown signs of womanizing at the early stages of courtship.
She is one of few women who have been educating the younger ones and married women on how to have a good relationship with their partners.
Story by Obaapa Janee
Source: ghbase
