Preserving Marriages: A Call to Mitigate the Dangers of Divorce — Daniel Fenyi
Daniel Fenyi, a counselor and Lecturer at UPSA, emphasized the need to protect marriages as a crucial step in preventing the adverse effects associated with divorce. Fenyi shared his insights on the Adekyee Mu Nsem morning show on Ahotor 92.3 FM, hosted by Citizen Kofi Owusu in Accra.
Divorce, according to Fenyi, introduces an environment of heightened worry and stress, impacting not only the spouses but also placing children in a vulnerable position. The negative consequences extend to increased arguments and conflict, exacerbating already delicate family dynamics.
Fenyi highlighted the social, economic, and welfare effects of divorce on families, emphasizing the ripple effect of negative consequences that can affect both immediate and extended family members. To address these common negative effects, Fenyi stressed the importance for married couples to be clear-minded and proactive in addressing challenges that may threaten their relationship.
Challenges and Consequences of Divorce:
- Decrease in Support: Divorce often leads to a reduction in support for family members, both financially and emotionally. The absence of the secure marital bond can result in feelings of isolation and a lack of emotional connection among family members.
- Lack of Trust: Divorce can breed a lack of trust within the family, particularly if it stems from issues like infidelity. Without trust, family members may hesitate to share their true feelings, fostering further isolation and disconnection.
- More Worry and Stress: The aftermath of divorce can create an environment of increased worry and stress, fueling arguments and conflict and further straining family dynamics.
- Decrease in Social Maturity and Affection: Divorce can lead to a decrease in social maturity and affection within the family, resulting in fewer meaningful conversations and shared experiences.
- Less Caring and More Overprotecting Parents: Divorcing parents may become less caring and more overprotective, impacting communication and the time spent with children, potentially leading to increased feelings of insecurity and anxiety.
- Early Departure from Home: Children of divorce may leave home earlier than expected, causing financial pressure on parents and increasing the likelihood of difficulties in schooling, work, and relationships
- Divorce can make it difficult for the children of divorced parents to maintain contact with their parents. This can lead to feelings of loneliness and isolation.
- Furthermore, if the children are not able to see both of their parents, they may feel like they are missing out on important experiences.
- Hostility
- Divorce can create a hostile environment in the home.
This can lead to a breakdown in communication and a lack of understanding between the children and their parents.He underscores that, this can also lead to distrust and resentment between the children and their parents. Divorce can have a significant impact on family dynamics and it is important to be aware of the potential consequences. AYM Kukah.E:mail:kukahalexander7@gmail.com
