Ghanaian gospel musician, Empress Gifty Adorye, has talked about the wisdom she applies in her marriage. In a recent interview that she said that she does not touch her husband’s phone and her husband does not touch her phone as well.
Empress Gifty stated that “in marriage, there is something called privacy. Marriage is private, but people don’t know. That thing we call a phone is private. Let me explain it to you. Today, a phone has caused someone to be disabled. A phone has made someone sit in a car and follow her husband to a hotel to see something that has left her mum. She is now disabled”.
“Not that I don’t trust my husband, but I know he can make mistakes because he is human. He is not the Holy Ghost. There are certain things that fasting will not solve. Prayer answers all things, but sometimes you need to apply wisdom”, she said.
“When it comes to marriage, apply wisdom. Have I finished answering my calls? What am I answering his calls for? A man I met who is past 50 years has been down a certain path for a long time. Nagging won’t change him. Complaining will only harden his resolve. But if you ignore him, he will be remorseful.
Everyman is weak. Men are visual beings. They lust after what they see with their eyes. Women are emotional. Submitting home is my happiness,” Empress Gifty added.
Story by Obaapa Jane
